I Judged Women Who Used IVF With Donor Eggs. Now It’s My Only Shot at Having a Baby

And I realise how wrong I was

Charlie Brown
Bitchy
Published in
5 min readApr 3, 2024

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Selfish.

That’s what I thought about women who chose donor egg IVF.

I was a member of the “why don’t you just adopt” camp. And I certainly thought, “why don’t you learn how to be happy without kids” more times than I care to…

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Charlie Brown
Bitchy
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Writer of opinions. Wine & food pro. Editor of Rooted, a Medium food & drink pub.. Niche-avoidant. Also at thesaucemag.substack.com